One of the things that drives me crazy about the modern world that we live in is that everyone is looking at their devices. I seem to be under the impression that it's FAR more prevalent in Asia. But I'm willing to accept that my impression is formed by context. As I think about it, part of the context is entirely different than at home. Here, people walk a lot and use public transportation. In Ohio, we're mostly using cars to get around.
Regardless, I'm frustrated. People walk around with their heads down staring at screens. They barely look up. The certainly expect others around them to do the dodging. Completely absorbed in god knows what. I'm not perfect. I do use time on the MRT or bus to catch an email. Or text Gary on some critical topic. But for the most part, I think my head is up.
This obsession with devices is driving me crazy! I want to scream "Look UP" at the top of my lungs. All of this looking down must surely mean that there is a lot less love-at-first-sight. There's noone to look at because the eyes are all looking down.
What about that magical moment when you lock eyes with someone? Could be a good looking guy. Someone with possibility. Oops, or a reminder that I'm totally in love with my husband. :-) Could be a woman you think you might connect and be friends with. It's all in the eyes. Oh, and the magic of watching a child's eyes light up as they laugh about something silly. All moments lost because of devices.
Watching people is one of life's great past times right? Especially where transportation is concerned. Airports are awesome for people watching. So are trains. In Asia, I really enjoy the opportunity to look around and try to guess where people are from. Contrary to some beliefs, all Asian faces are not the same. There are differences - some big and some small. I particularly love looking at the elders. The gentle lines on a wise old woman's face - priceless. Or watching an older Asian man in a grumpy mood. Entertaining.
All missed because we are too busy.
So this is a plea to the world (and maybe even a reminder to myself) to LOOK UP! CARPE DIEM! Be open to the meaning in seemingly meaningless encounters. The chance to connect with another human being even if just for a moment - through the second your eyes connect. It's a reminder to seize the immense opportunity in every moment even if it means being still and simply noticing things and people around you. Connections. That's why we are here.
Maybe I'm feeling particularly philosophical as my dear friend, Anita, just found out that her breast cancer is back after 14 years. I have faith that she can beat it again. It won't happen without a fight, but she's a tough one. A harsh reminder that our time here is short. And what a shame it would be to always have our heads down.
LOOK UP, my friends!